When the weather turns chilly,
it's easy to fall into the same dating traps -- movies, coffee,
hanging around the house. But don't let the weather zap your
dating creativity this winter. There are plenty of exotic,
inexpensive and easy to execute date ideas waiting to be explored.
Here are just a few...
7. Sherry and Tapas
Sherry is the new black, in wine
circles at least. So it's time to banish those memories of your
Grandma's bottle of cheap plonk and think richly flavoured,
imported liquor instead. Sherry is the perfect match for a
date-friendly meal of tapas, so why not combine the two for a
Spanish-themed evening your date will love? Check your local
bottle shop for tasting events to brush up on your sherry
knowledge and see your local restaurant guide for a tapas bar in
your area.
6. Volunteering
Get all warm and fuzzy on the
inside by lending a hand to those less fortunate this winter. The
selfless act of donating your time to the needy shows a lot about
your character, and will also reveal something about your date's
compassionate side. Contact your favorite charity to find out if
they need a hand at their soup kitchen, offer to dog walk at an
animal shelter, or help at a seasonal fundraising event. Don't
forget to bundle up!
5. Treasure Hunt
Get a map of your local region,
grab a pin and stick it in. That's where you'll be heading for
your treasure hunt. Then with your date, create your own treasure
hunt list, itemizing things you need to see, do or collect along
the way. Items you might like to collect include a book of
matches, a beer coaster, a postcard, and you might have to 'spot'
a telephone booth, a children's playground, an ice-cream shop.
Once you've ticked off all the items on your scavenge hunt list,
head to the nearest pub and celebrate your success with your date.
4. The World's Biggest
Hot Chocolate
We all know how delicious and
warming a steaming mug of hot chocolate can be on a cold winter's
day. So let's take things to the next level. Run your date a nice
warm bath and add to it lashings of chocolate-scented bubble bath
or bath salts. Hand your date a block of their favourite chocolate
and let them settle in for an hour of bliss. Depending on how well
you two know each other, you might like to join your date in the
tub... Or you could perhaps offer to read to them while they soak.
Recommended read? Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory,
naturally.
3. Hot Video Night
When the weather is chilly, set
the temperature inside to hot with your own video heatwave. Choose
DVD titles where heat, the beach, or the desert are key elements,
and then sit back with your date for a scorching movie marathon.
Some hot blockbusters include: Some Like It Hot, The
Beach, Body Heat and Endless Summer. For
extra kitsch value, why not rent a DVD of a real log fire? Played
on your TV screen, this cheesy fake fire will give your lounge
room -- and your date -- a warm glow. Ask at your local video
store.
2. Skate on Thin Ice
It seems obvious but why not
strap on the blades and hit the ice? Virtually every North
American city has a public skating rink and most major
metropolises transform a city square into a giant outdoor rink
each winter (think Nathan Phillips Square in Toronto or
Rockefeller Center in New York). Besides, there's nothing sexier
than a novice skater nuzzling up against a more accomplished
partner for support as they wobble around the rink. Skates can be
rented by the hour in most places, the exercise is great and
you'll have plenty to laugh and chat about post-skate at the pub
or café. In this category, see also bowling.
1. Hot Yoga
All the rage in the bendy world
of yoga is Bikram, a yoga style that uses a heated room to
maximise the benefits of this ancient form of exercise. The room
is heated to a balmy 37° C (or roughly 100° F), allowing
participants to work muscles, tendons and ligaments through a
series of stretching, strengthening and toning exercises. The
results will leave you and your date feeling supple and
stimulated, and a bit sweaty -- the perfect way to unwind after a
stressful week. Check the Web or your local Yellow Pages for
Bikram Yoga sessions in your area.